Right or Wrong ??

How would you know that the decision you are taking is right or wrong? How would you know whether what you're doing is correct or incorrect? I am not talking about tests or anything like that but about decisions in life and stages we go through.


Its so confusing at times when you really wanna do something but still are not sure whether if its right or wrong...will it cause trouble or what? is it really what you want ?? 


And sometimes you do know its wrong but really really wanna do it...then? Then what do you do? Will it be worth the risk??


Sometimes I really get stuck in situations where I know its wrong but i HAVE to do it or WANT to...its really confusing!! 

They define 'style' !!

Taylor Momsen, from gossip girl, I totally love her character especially in the first season, and I think she's got great style, truly! she looks amazing and carries herself very well.

Vanessa Hudgens:: I don't really like her in person, but I really like her style alot. She looks great in casuals and I love her big bags and boots. More than on the red carpet and movies, I prefer her in her casuals.I prefer her in her jeans.What do you think?

These were my two new style icons, apart from them, as mentioned earlier:: Demi Lovato,Selena Gomez, Victoria Justice, etc..inspire me alot. Who are your style icons???

You're gonna be a shinin' star In fancy clothes and fancy cars And then you'll see you're gonna go far 'Cause everyone knows just who you are...

Hey, sorry for not blogging for awhile its cause of homework, projects, mood swings, changes in feelings every second day, etc.

Anyways, I was just wondering about how ungrateful we are to so many things we are given...we always crib and complain about what we don't have rather than being thankful with what we DO HAVE. I mean seriously, there are so many things in my life I have been very ungrateful to, but just look at yourself, look at your life, how is it? We all can be happy even with the most littlest things in life, thats happiness ---enjoying every bit of your life.


Sadly,all of us cannot achieve happiness all the time...obviously! but yea that does'nt mean you have to be sad all the time. Time comes and goes, good moments pass by and so do bad moments.


You know what, I was so ungrateful to my life, but as time passes by I realize how genial and happy it is.Now, also when sad times come, I get frustrated with my life, but actually....even through the dark clouded days , you learn a lot! its like every moment of your life....you are learning something or the other. 


And, about haters....we get so angry at them and hence start hating them too cause of them hating us! well, you can't do anything about these people, you can't hate someone for NOT liking you, it aint compulsary for all the people of the world to love you. You see your favourite celebrities, they have many fan clubs but yes they even have  hate clubs!! And plus even we do hate alot of people in our lives, don't we? 


So, never mind what haters say, ignore them till they fade away...just live your life!!

People

Have you ever imagined how much hardwork the 'great' people do just to get that fame and money?! The other day, I was watching this show called 'tere mere beech mei' for all those who are clueless about it, its a show hosted by Farah Khan, where she interviews the celebrities in bollywood.This show is pretty different than the other bollywood talk shows, its not just the normal chat show where people just talk and talk about their next movies and blah blah. They talk about the several issues and problems they have gone through in their life.Believe me, I was so deeply inspired when I watched the episode when Hrithik Roshan was interviewed, no one could have ever imagined how MUCH hard work he has done just to reach to the stage where he is now.It seems,he use to stammer till the age of 21, now he does'nt but thats cause he made lot of effort and made the impossible HAPPEN! Like they say, practice makes man perfect, yes, very true! it does! He wanted to become an actor since a very young age, people use to laugh at him cause he could'nt say 'I wanna be an actor' properly because of his stammering!! Then, he thought about it, what he really wanted was to become an actor..yes, and there he is...fullfilled all his dreams!! He actually started from the scratch! he use to spend the whole day practicing each letter so that he could talk properly! and till date he still practices one hour a day!! And then he even had this back problem, he would'nt be able to dance...but dude, have you even seen his dancing!!! Yes, hard work, determination and faith makes things possible...There is no such word as impossible, cause there are people who have proved it that impossible things can happen!


I remember in my previous school, our principal and CEO kept telling us everytime to strike off the word 'impossible' from the dictionary cause there is no word like impossible.All things can happen, if you put your full effort and hard work to it.Be dedicated in what ever you do and excel in it! No matter what you do, even if its a little thing...putting your whole dedication makes it the best. :-)


Miracles happen!! :-) 'nothing is impossible,cause the word itself says I'm possible!' :D

My name and blog in Today's Mid-day!!!!!!!!

Hey, there's some really great news, my friend's mom works in mid day (pune) and she was given to write an article on teenage bloggers and stuff, so my name and my other mate's name ::Adnan Shaikh was given with the description of our blog :-) my link turned out to be printed wrong and unfortunately my picture given was my other friends picture with Adnan. So, that was a mistake, it will get corrected. I'm really happy about this!! :D

                                                               The Article

Kuch toh b-log kahenge Teens turn to blogging to talk about themselves, make friends and ponder over life, reports Shree Lahiri passionate: Huda Merchant, Adnan Shaikh and Fahad Naqvi feel blogs help them discuss issues and connect with others Adnan Shaikh (14) from NIBM Shaikh started this blog with friend Fahad Naqvi (14) from Magarpatta City, in April. Shaikh says in a post, "Well I Just A Lill' teen dude (for now) trying to get through his time of his life like any not so un extraordinary teen in this not so un extraordinary World!" The blog offers a mixed bag of gossip and social activities. Shaikh has uploaded many candid shots of outings with friends. "There's a corner for crushes too, and allows comments," said Shaikh. shakenchada.blogspot.com Huda Merchant (14) Huda enjoys writing about fashion, friends and family. Huda, who recently relocated to Jeddah, KSA, from Pune, with her family, continues to be in touch with her friends in Pune through her blog. The contents of Huda's blog reflect a journal touch, as her post topics include Glints in the life of a not-so-average teenager, On Independence day, Talking about religion, Being a girl. Age no bar Huda feels age is not a barrier for blogging, as she recently helped her nine-year-old sister Hanifa create her own blog. "It is childish, but it's quite rare," she said. Hanifa in her blog — littlehanu7.blogspot.com — talks about her best friend, her sister and herself. Teachers say Shaila Surkund from Rewachand Bhojwani Academy at Camp said, "Most of them spend a lot of time on their computers and rarely take part in physical activities. But it is alright, as they talk about different things and know more than us." Another teacher said, "It's a release mechanism, as they discuss about things that affects them." missrandom. blogspot.com Peer pressure Dr Sunita Raman, a psychiatrist at Wanwadi, said, "The Internet is used as a friend. It's so impersonal and the question of inhibitions does not arise. There is no censure, but only unconditional acceptance." In their efforts make friends, kids may become easy targets. "Parental or adult guidance should be given to them," she added. Do you know? * Over 1,20,000 blogs are created every day * There are over 1.4 million new blog posts every day * 22 of the 100 most popular websites in the world are blogs. * Blog readers average 23 hours online each week.

Back to normal life..

2months passed by and now its back to Jeddah and back to routine.Back to school, But after 2 weeks, thanks to the pigs!! Back to life now, but now in a different way..during this vacation its like I found myself or something they say? ummmm I really dont know, but I have changed a little bit, in a good way. Thanks to all my friends, with whoom I can be myself and do what I want not worrying about what people think.


Anyways, this time I decided to be myself cause thats more important than what people think.I don't want to do things just cause people are doing it and stuff. I'm gonna be who i am, and do what I want to do.I won't let anyone ruin my day.Its all up to me, how I deal and what I do with my life.


This vacation was amazing filled with memorable moments.Yes swine flu did stop us from doing certain things, but its okay.This summer in the monsoon had it all...friendship,happiness,family,fun,saddness(very little though), adventure..we went up the hill twice!! fun fun!!, comedy and loads more and most importantly LOVE :-)


Every day was a new day, no fights, no complains, just happiness..they say happiness comes from enjoying the small daily things of life.Yes, its very true...cause we didn't do anything extra ordinary or something special, It's just that when you're with the people you love, all the moments spent together become special.Yes, even the boring ones, believe me..!!


After this summer,things have changed and for the good! I know the value of my friends and family and myself too ;)


Sometimes, its just better to accept life the way it is, cause its all for the good and up there, someone's planning a big picture for the coming future. :-)
 
Though I am gonna miss the late night conversations, messages, dancing in the rain ,meeting after school,etc..but hey, its all gonna be back soon, who knows, next time its gonna be better!! yes it will be better :D

always there by my side, my 2 bestest friends...

She forced me

She forced me to make her a blog, I said no and told her that she was too young, finally, after 2 months, lots of pleading, I agreed and now my little sister owns her own blog!! shes EIGHT!! 

Here is little hanu's blog!!

14...FINALLY!!

Hey, ok so I'm not that excited but yes a little!! ok a lot! just for some unknown reasons, obviously, everyone gets happy on their birthdays.

I am happy cause in another two years I can ride a bike.Yay!

I'm happy cause, the past one year of my teenage life has gone well, with all sorts of moments and experiences and I look forward for more adventures!!

I'm happy cause  I'm celebrating my birthday with my friends and family in Pune, unlike last time, when I was travelling and shifting from Pune :-(

 I'm celebrating my birthday tomorrow with my family and then with my friends :-)

Now, I'm just waiting for midnight :-)

Random Talk :: Teenage love

They call it puppy love

or they say it's just an infatuation, and we'll get over it.

some people wanna fall in love , not cause they love the person, but for some other unknown reason.

some of them really and truly love the person.

We all have had crushes right? mostly at the age of 12 to 19 I guess. I had my first crush in the 7Th grade...it was really one big infatuation!! I was so damn obsessed with that guy, and I had never spoken to him or anything...I liked him cause he was adorable, really very cute.Most of us at that age did fall for looks and all, .and like every story, yes he hated me BUT just cause I liked him! Everyone knew!! The entire 7Th grade...EMBARRASSING!!My crush went on for 6-7months..then he left school soon and I later got over it.

Anyways, so why do people call teenage love 'puppy love'? I don't know yet!? Do you?? Cause according to me, even if you fall in love now, and even if you're not sure about how long it will go on, taking a risk is worth it sometimes, as far as what I have seen.some relationships might last and some might not, it's how YOU deal with it..

I know that, some people just get into a relationship for wrong stuff, some of them just want to be WANTED and LOVED, so they go around dating online and stuff, which is LAME and STUPID!

Some of them, don't want to fall in love, but it HAPPENS,no matter how much you ignore it,you DO fall in love at sometime.

They say, true love comes only once a lifetime.Well, I don't know about that.

I have seen that some relationships DO last really very long, sometimes you would actually think that they would last a lifetime,they might you know!! It's basically how YOU and you're partner deal with it.

In the old generations, they mostly had arranged marriages, that's why people say, they don't know about 'teenage love' or stuff but so what? they know about love,just imagine that you have to marry this unknown person, you kinda know him but not much, ain't it so weird that these couples who in the start hardly knew each other, have a really happy married life, It's how you deal with it, they got along really well,adjusted and now they are like some of the PERFECT couples.

Anyways, towards the end of this post, why do people call it puppy love,infatuation or just an attraction??

Why do people wanna get into relationships just to be WANTED or some other reason , but not cause they really love the person??

Why do some people ignore the 'feeling' ?? why? age? or what??

P.S: should I change my blog template,background,anything about my blog?

This moment..

I have dreamed alot of things, now I wanna make them come true, dreams are a way to escape from reality , do what you want, do the things you wished to do!

I wanna be 16 and ride a scooty which is probably purple in colour..then go anywhere I want...not just by rickshaw or ask someone to drop me.I wanna stay in India.I wanna get out of my present school and go to college or my previous school.

I wanna be independent, I wanna do some crazy stuff, I wanna dance like there's no tomorrow..though I know there is a TOMORROW, I wanna live each moment and have a bright future.I want people to like me for who I am really not for who I'm not.

I don't want to get married before 24,I wanna have a huge wardrobe,I wanna learn new things I like,I wanna try new and different things,I wanna have fun,I wanna have my priorities set right and do the right things at the right time though we can't be right all the time but the time I do bad, I wanna realize that what I did was wrong!

I want my real friends to stick with me through all my life no matter what distance or what so ever.I don't really care about the friends who are just using me for some reason or the people who don't care.I don't care about bitches and people who don't like me.

I wanna make a difference,I wanna do something more important with my life.Though to make everyone happy is a tough call I still wanna try and make people happy:-)

Sometimes loneliness and sadness helps and is needed in life though its depressing there's always a positive outcome!

I have the most weirdest and best people making appearances in my life, there are even the bad people who make their appearances but all for some kind of outcome which is realized after a long time.

I love my life, though I really hate it sometimes and there are loads of twists and bumps but its all ok cause I can always make it better! I'm writing my story..so its all up to me!

I don't like boredom but sometimes it makes me do amazing things like this blog, which had actually started through my boredom activities and now blogging is one of my favourite hobby!!